Women, Virginity, Sex, and Pain

The other night my boyfriend and I were lying on my bed watching our usual late night vhs, this night was KIDS. If you haven’t seen KIDS, it’s basically about a bunch of high school kids living in NY. The main character is a boy who makes it is main and only objective to have sex with virgins. In this movie, it shows him wooing many different young girls until he eventually talks them into sleeping with them. Once he woos each of them, it shows him fucking each girl with no care as to how the sex feels on her end (of course this isn’t surprising to the audience given the type of guy he’s personified as. Although, this got me thinking. All my life I was taught that sex was supposed to hurt for women the first time. But let me tell you now: THIS IS 100% NOT TRUE AT ALL NOT EVEN A LITTLE BIT. No matter how “large” the man on the other end is, it should not hurt. If it hurts, it simply means your partner is unaware of foreplay, or he’s an asshole who doesn’t give a shit about you.

I think it’s crazy that women are taught this, and I think it’s crazy that I had to find out how wrong this was on my own. And that is why I want all young ladies who have yet to experience this stepping stone in their life to know this bit of info that most women do not find out until a lot later, if ever.

geotan:

grawly:

hanukkahlewinsky:

i love when old people figure out how to do something on a computer that’s actually really simple but to them it’s like 

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wwhere is grambnda going???? help her

goodbye grandma

asylum-art:

Art Focus:Adam Lupton

For this edition of our Art Focus feature, we present to you the work of Canadian artist Adam Lupton. Painted in oils, his portraiture oftentimes features multiple visages blurred together in a fragmented reality that seems to reflect the different struggles his subjects have with identity. Examples of this include different glimpses of a man dressing in drag and snapshots of another person putting on different masks


1000scientists:

Brian Moran
red-lipstick:

Francis Picabia aka François Marie Martinez Picabia (1879-1953, French) - Olga, 1930    Drawings

red-lipstick:

Francis Picabia aka François Marie Martinez Picabia (1879-1953, French) - Olga, 1930    Drawings

sphinxnomore:

The Tumblr Effect

sphinxnomore:

The Tumblr Effect

(Source: creepycuteandslut)

thisishangingrockcomics:

just woke up 2 find jill slid this under my front door 

i put it in and it is actually “so yesterday” 17 times over. my friends are really good sometimes

buncha kool kats

buncha kool kats

(Source: z-kitsch)

tumblropenarts:

Artist Name: Mihael Martinec
Tumblr: mm101088.tumblr.com 

tumblropenarts:

Artist Name: Mihael Martinec

Tumblr: mm101088.tumblr.com 

justfloatingalone: